Brian.Evans
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I have put off writing this post for the past week, mostly because I didn't have a lot of information. I still don't have much information, but I think I need to put something out here because I would want to know if I were in your shoes.
I have had a horrible past week. I told Heather last Saturday (June 27th) that I wanted a divorce. She backed me into a corner (figuratively) and demanded to know what I wanted to do long term. It's been hell this month, hell this past year, absolute hell. I told her I wanted a divorce. When I got home Sunday the plan was for me to pack a big with only the essentials and go to my parents and then we'd figure out where to go from there. She lost it. She made me pack EVERYTHING. Had my 4 year old saying "go away daddy, we don't want you here." Accusing me, in front of all the kids, of some very horrific things. Things that are completely untrue in every way. It mad me sad more than angry. I left without saying a word in return.
This past week she says she's been selling tools, saying the contents of the shop are being sold to pay her grandfather back for the loan he gave me to start up the knife business. The money in my knife account is gone. There's one penny left, just to keep the account open. She took it because, "it belonged to her grandfather and she needed to pay bills." I had to leave a lot of the raw materials there. I did get the Dart EDC blanks. he kept my pistol, saying she was going to sell it for bill money. She said she's selling off my hand tools for bill money. I know for a fact my sharpening system, both little drill presses, and my buffer is gone. It's been horrible. I honestly don't know how much she's sold. I know the grinder is still there, or I think it is anyway.
She hasn't let me talk to my kids or see them until just yesterday. I'm so shot I can't see straight. The weird thing is, I'm relieved to be out of there. I miss my kids, but they're ok right now. I feel guilty for breaking up my family, but nothing has changed in the last year. She's not gotten help. I looked at my notes from a year ago; they could have been written last week. I can't fix her. I'm just shot. I just got off the phone with her first ex husband. This is the exact same thing that happened with him, in fact it's so close it's scary.
I don't know how to face my forum. I'm ashamed. I owe some of you guys money, not a lot, but enough I'd be upset if I was on the other side. I have no idea what to do. I'm not giving up making knives. It's too much, too deep in my soul to quit, but I don't even know what the next few days are going to bring, let alone trying to figure out making knives right now. I hate letting people down. I don't know what to do.
I meet with a lawyer on Tuesday. Hopefully I have some ideas then. I don't know if I'm going to get to keep my grinders or my hand tools. Right now I don't have a shop. I don't have a drill press to drill the handle material, I don't have the mesquite or the carbon fiber for a couple of you guys' knives. I don't have the Acraglass or the corby bolts, they are all in my shop. The money was taken out of the knife account.
Basically, I'm stuck.
GAME PLAN GOING FOWARD:
I know that the forums will break me if I'm not open and honest. We've all seen it time and again. In an effort to be open, I'm providing an accounting below of all the people I owe money to. Once child support gets figured out and I my paycheck is coming into an account I have access to again I will start paying you all back.
As of now, all orders are cancelled. I hate to do this, but I have to because I don't have a shop or tools to commit to orders. If I get a shop set up soon, I will contact people and see if they are still interested in their knives.
PAID FOR KNIVES:
Robert Loftin MyOwnGod $200
Jesse Mathewson painkilleraz $300
Ronnie Hale HaleStorm $160
Total Paid for Knives: $660
FORUM CONTRIBUTIONS:
Ray Cornelison $50
Matthew King $20
Luke Spinolo $20
Jack Simons $40
Joe Freeborn $25
Sam Murphy $20
Derek Rivera $20
Robert Loftin $10
Total Paid for Forum Contributions: $205
Azyrah, you and I agreed on a side project for an EDC Kephart Prototype for testing. Traded for an used Izula 2, used LM Wave, and a used MaxPed Sheath. Let me know how to proceed, please.
So, there it is guys. Total of $865. It will take me a bit to pay it back to you all, given that I'm going to be hiring a lawyer and trying to get an apartment set up, etc. Oh, and I had to take the Suburban that has a payment and gets 12 mpg instead of the Volvo that is paid off and gets 28 mpg. So, it is eating me alive with fuel costs driving 2 hours to work.
Anyway, I hope this gives you guys some info and a place we can start out. I am sick over this. I am reeling from the massive change in my life, but I DO NOT WANT TO JUST WALK AWAY FROM THIS. I have too much integrity and I would like to be able to show my face and sell knives here again. Because I will be back. Give me a few months and I'll be back.
I have a mid-tech project that is basically finished already. If, and it's a HUGE IF, I can get financing for the initial investment, I will be selling those on the forum and hopefully through dealers. If that works out, the first profits will be used to pay you all back. Full disclosure, so you know what's going on if you see some of the knives pop up on the forum. I'm not running away from my obligations, I'm trying to stay afloat and meet my obligations at the same time.
Feel free to post here, email/pm/text/call me to talk, bs, or cuss me out.
Brian Evans
Brian.Evans on BladeForums
evansknifeandtool@gmail.com
(217)979-9956
I have had a horrible past week. I told Heather last Saturday (June 27th) that I wanted a divorce. She backed me into a corner (figuratively) and demanded to know what I wanted to do long term. It's been hell this month, hell this past year, absolute hell. I told her I wanted a divorce. When I got home Sunday the plan was for me to pack a big with only the essentials and go to my parents and then we'd figure out where to go from there. She lost it. She made me pack EVERYTHING. Had my 4 year old saying "go away daddy, we don't want you here." Accusing me, in front of all the kids, of some very horrific things. Things that are completely untrue in every way. It mad me sad more than angry. I left without saying a word in return.
This past week she says she's been selling tools, saying the contents of the shop are being sold to pay her grandfather back for the loan he gave me to start up the knife business. The money in my knife account is gone. There's one penny left, just to keep the account open. She took it because, "it belonged to her grandfather and she needed to pay bills." I had to leave a lot of the raw materials there. I did get the Dart EDC blanks. he kept my pistol, saying she was going to sell it for bill money. She said she's selling off my hand tools for bill money. I know for a fact my sharpening system, both little drill presses, and my buffer is gone. It's been horrible. I honestly don't know how much she's sold. I know the grinder is still there, or I think it is anyway.
She hasn't let me talk to my kids or see them until just yesterday. I'm so shot I can't see straight. The weird thing is, I'm relieved to be out of there. I miss my kids, but they're ok right now. I feel guilty for breaking up my family, but nothing has changed in the last year. She's not gotten help. I looked at my notes from a year ago; they could have been written last week. I can't fix her. I'm just shot. I just got off the phone with her first ex husband. This is the exact same thing that happened with him, in fact it's so close it's scary.
I don't know how to face my forum. I'm ashamed. I owe some of you guys money, not a lot, but enough I'd be upset if I was on the other side. I have no idea what to do. I'm not giving up making knives. It's too much, too deep in my soul to quit, but I don't even know what the next few days are going to bring, let alone trying to figure out making knives right now. I hate letting people down. I don't know what to do.
I meet with a lawyer on Tuesday. Hopefully I have some ideas then. I don't know if I'm going to get to keep my grinders or my hand tools. Right now I don't have a shop. I don't have a drill press to drill the handle material, I don't have the mesquite or the carbon fiber for a couple of you guys' knives. I don't have the Acraglass or the corby bolts, they are all in my shop. The money was taken out of the knife account.
Basically, I'm stuck.
GAME PLAN GOING FOWARD:
I know that the forums will break me if I'm not open and honest. We've all seen it time and again. In an effort to be open, I'm providing an accounting below of all the people I owe money to. Once child support gets figured out and I my paycheck is coming into an account I have access to again I will start paying you all back.
As of now, all orders are cancelled. I hate to do this, but I have to because I don't have a shop or tools to commit to orders. If I get a shop set up soon, I will contact people and see if they are still interested in their knives.
PAID FOR KNIVES:
Robert Loftin MyOwnGod $200
Jesse Mathewson painkilleraz $300
Ronnie Hale HaleStorm $160
Total Paid for Knives: $660
FORUM CONTRIBUTIONS:
Ray Cornelison $50
Matthew King $20
Luke Spinolo $20
Jack Simons $40
Joe Freeborn $25
Sam Murphy $20
Derek Rivera $20
Robert Loftin $10
Total Paid for Forum Contributions: $205
Azyrah, you and I agreed on a side project for an EDC Kephart Prototype for testing. Traded for an used Izula 2, used LM Wave, and a used MaxPed Sheath. Let me know how to proceed, please.
So, there it is guys. Total of $865. It will take me a bit to pay it back to you all, given that I'm going to be hiring a lawyer and trying to get an apartment set up, etc. Oh, and I had to take the Suburban that has a payment and gets 12 mpg instead of the Volvo that is paid off and gets 28 mpg. So, it is eating me alive with fuel costs driving 2 hours to work.
Anyway, I hope this gives you guys some info and a place we can start out. I am sick over this. I am reeling from the massive change in my life, but I DO NOT WANT TO JUST WALK AWAY FROM THIS. I have too much integrity and I would like to be able to show my face and sell knives here again. Because I will be back. Give me a few months and I'll be back.
I have a mid-tech project that is basically finished already. If, and it's a HUGE IF, I can get financing for the initial investment, I will be selling those on the forum and hopefully through dealers. If that works out, the first profits will be used to pay you all back. Full disclosure, so you know what's going on if you see some of the knives pop up on the forum. I'm not running away from my obligations, I'm trying to stay afloat and meet my obligations at the same time.
Feel free to post here, email/pm/text/call me to talk, bs, or cuss me out.
Brian Evans
Brian.Evans on BladeForums
evansknifeandtool@gmail.com
(217)979-9956